How do you deal with others disciplining your children?

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I have a 2 year old daughter, who i could say has been spoiled. she is a only child and the first grand DAUGHTER...she was born with a hole in her heart so everyone babied her. She is extremely smart and picks up everything you say... even the bad things. She has been repeating curse words that she hears family members say and always seems to say them at the wrong time.
I was out to dinner with my mom and my daughter, while eating my daughter became restless and wanted to play, my mom tried to restrain her and calm her down and after a fee minutes became so frustrated that she slapped my daughter across the face, and told her to sit down.
I flew off the handle. I believe in disciplining but there is a time and a place. Now i am being accused of being a bad mother because i become defensive when my mom hits my child! I thought she was way out of line? Am i wrong? Am i just being over protective??
HELP!!!

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Now every kid can write like a Wimpy Kid! An exciting companion to the bestselling Diary of a Wimpy Kid series. “First of all, let me get something straight: This is a journal, not a diary.” This innovative interactive journal based on Greg Heffley’s own “diary” lets kids express themselves in an exciting new way. In Diary of a Wimpy Kid Do-It-Yourself Book, kids will be asked: What was the best dream you ever had? The worst thing you ever ate? The best secret you ever heard? The most trouble you ever got in for something that wasn’t even your fault to begin with? This Do-It-Yourself Book features art throughout, along with ruled and blank pages for readers to create their own stories, keep their own diaries, and record their favorites and least faves. Includes a bonus full-color comics section featuring the collected cartoons of Greg Heffley and his best friend, Rowley. Includes 16 pages of full-color comics!  “Move over, Harry Potter. . . . There’s a new set of titles dominating the bestseller list for kids’ chapter books, and there’s nothing ‘fantasy’ about these.”—Andrea Yeats on NPR’s All Things Considered  “Perfectly pitched wit and believably self-centered hero . . .”—The New York Times “Charming and hilarious from the get-go. . . . [Kinney has] an uncanny eye for the depredations and triumphs of middle school life.” —The Boston Globe “The writing is sharp, and the artwork, though deceptively simple, is both entertaining and expressive . . . adding comic punch to these funny-because-they’re-true scenes . . .” —Bookpage “Perfect for someone about to go to middle school, perfect for parents to help ease their child into this new phase. . . . Kinney has done a wonderful service for preteens by talking about all those awful, embarrassing, and good moments.” —The San Diego Union Tribune F&P level: T

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by Michael Boyd from SAINTE GENEVIEVE, MO, US on 2010-04-14
Fantastic book. My two youngest kids - my son and daughter, respectively - loved the Diary of a Wimpy Kid Do it Yourself book. It actually was for my son, but my daughter kept stealing it from him and writing her own things in it, thus creating arguments (typical for those two anyway). Now they both want more Wimpy Kid books from the series and she wants her own Do It Yourself book. I now have ideas for useful birthday and Christmas presents that's not another toy and motivates them to put their day and thoughts in written words and do so creatively. THANK YOU Jeff Kinney. As a longtime sportswriter, I feel writing, especially a journal or diary, is very important at every age. :) Mike Boyd Ste. Genevieve, Mo.


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by Noname from on 2010-05-13
I have a kindergartener and a third grader who are gung ho over "Diary of a Wimpy Kid Do-It-Yourself Book." My 8 year-old son, who never enjoyed writing, is writing every day in his own diary. The kids fought over it until my kindergartener went out and bought her own. I asked my son what was so special about this diary. He said it asks him questions. I looked and half the book is filled with pages prompting things like "Five things nobody knows about you because they never bothered to ask" or "The worst nightmare you ever had." There are 16 pages of full color Zoo-Wee Mama comics followed by lined blank pages for the children to write freely. This Do-It-Yourself Book is a hit. My kids have shown their books to all their friends and I've seen other kids toting them around, as well. It inspired my children to go on and buy their own private locked diaries after having gone through this one. If you have a "Diary of a Wimpy Kid" fan, this book is sure to delight.


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Science has never been so easy - or so much fun! With The Everything Kids' Science Experiments Book, all you need to do is gather a few household items and you can recreate dozens of mind-blowing, kid-tested science experiments. High school science teach Tom Robinson shows you how to expand your scientific horizons - from biology to chemistry to physics to outer space. You'll discover answers to questions like: Is it possible to blow up a balloon without actually blowing into it? What is inside coins? Can a magnet ever be "turned off"? Do toilets always flush in the same direction? Can a swimming pool be cleaned with just the breath of one person? Get ready to enter the laboratory and learn how to conduct cool experiments, understand scientific terms like "photosynthesis," and know fun facts like how many latex balloons per day can be made from a rubber tree. Each section has a great science fair project, complete with all the details you need to wow your teachers and friends. You won't want to wait for a rainy day or your school's science fair to test these cool experiments for yourself!

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Everything you need to have fun...(and learn, too)

by Reader from Dublin, Ireland on 2002-03-09
This is a great book, chock-a-block w/ very accessible experiments. One of the best features is the way the experiments are grouped together: a 'theme' (say, Acids, in the Chemistry section) will have a group of experiments of varying degrees of complexity that together add up to a pretty good understanding of the concept. Also, most of the materials are readily at hand- for many of them we really did already have everything in the house. This is esp. gratifying for the kids, who of course want to do the experiment *right now*. I would imagine that home-schooling families would enjoy this, but our school-going kids enjoy doing these experiments after school & on weekends. p.s., one of the easiest experiments is also a real showstopper, though it takes a couple of days to complete: dissolving the eggshell of an egg, leaving the egg inside intact!


Science fun for kids of all ages!

by Dave Wright from Kent, WA on 2001-10-21
Wow, what a great book! My kids love it. It is set up as a series of activities that begin with a question followed by an experiment that answers the question. Questions such as "How do you peel a raw egg?", "Does air take up space?" and "Why can't I taste medicine when I plug my nose?" are all examples of questions posed in the book. The fun is in the experiment that answers the question. I think I counted something like 30 different experiments from 5 main science areas (biology, chemistry, physics, planet earth, and the human body). Following each area is a "science fair project" for the kids to use at the next science fair at school! What a great resource it will be for our family in the years to come. All in all a great book at a great price.


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Common sense, practical ideas for challenging students

by Jill A. Lindberg from Milwaukee, WI United States on 2001-10-19
I have collected many useful books on classroom management and have even written one of my own. This book offers realistic insights into what motivates these challenging kids as well as a variety of excellent strategies and ideas that absolutely can be implemented by classroom teachers. In addition, it suggests a number of resources to help teachers in the area of behavior, social, and academic assessments for these students. I am a mentor teacher and have recommended this book to my colleagues as well as classroom teachers and university professors. It's just great!


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The first four books in the bestselling Diary of a Wimpy Kid series are available together for the first time in a collectible boxed set. Included are Diary of a Wimpy Kid, Rodrick Rules, The Last Straw, and Dog Days, in a specially designed package that features six pages from Rowley Jefferson’s journal, “Diary of an Awesome, Friendly Kid”—an original cartoon by Jeff Kinney.

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Or why you never want to play a tree in a school production of The Wizard of Oz

by E. R. Bird from Manhattan, NY on 2007-03-25
The world has not yet invented a method of finding the best webcomics currently available on the Internet for kids. So basically, for every twenty low-quality/poorly thought out amalgamations of crap, you get one bright shining star. "Diary of a Wimpy Kid," the webcomic, was one such star. The only conclusion I can really draw at this point is that somebody at Abrams is a friggin' genius for plucking the comic up and making it into a book. Now normally I don't like to separate titles into "girl books" and "boy books", but Jeff Kinney has written such a marvelous "boy book" that for every parent that walks in the door of my library I'm going to be cramming this title into their arms. Heck, I'll slip it into their purses if I have to. This book is going to reach its intended audience whether I have to wrestle skeptical parents to the floor with it clamped firmly in my teeth. Want to transfer your Captain Underpants lovers from graphic novels to fiction? This book won't do that. It's just something that every single person will get a kick out of. First things first. Boys do not have diaries. Girls have diaries. Let's get that straight cause things could get messy if we don't. Basically, what we have here are the gathered thoughts and memories of Greg Haffley. Greg's got a pretty average life, all things considered. His older brother is a jerk, his younger brother annoying, his best friend a doofus, and his parents perfect dweebs. To top it all off, Greg's been thrown into his first year of middle school and things are really weird. Suddenly friendships are shifting and Greg's not sure who he wants to be. Add in some haunted houses, wrestling, downhill games involving bodily injury, forbidden cheese, and basic family fears and you've got yourself one heckuva debut. I should specify that in spite of the fact that this book is based on a webcomic, it's not a graphic novel. Not really. Comic illustrations appear on every single page and complement the storytelling, but this is really more a (what's the term again?) illustrated novel. What this appears to be, more than anything else, is a notebook that's been written in by hand with the occasional cartoony illustration here and there for effect. It never breaks up into panels or long illustrated periods. There are just tasty little comic treats on each and every page. Now the term "laugh-out-loud funny" is not to be bandied about. When I say that something is "laugh-out-loud funny" I don't want to be talking titters, mild chuckles, or undersized, underfed guffaws. I want to describe something so amusing that you think about it later and start laughing in an embarrassing manner on the subway. Jeff Kinney gave me that more than once. There was the moment when Greg's trying to get out of performing as an apple-throwing tree in his school's production of, "The Wizard of Oz." He thinks that maybe if he screws up what he has to say, that might be his out. "But when you only have one word to say, it's really hard to mess up your lines." The next thing we know, "Dorothy" has picked an apple and Greg's trying out a tentative, "Owwwchhh?" Oh! And the form thank you letters! Greg figures out that he says basically the same thing to all his relatives. So he just cranks out a form letter and fills in the details. This works great until he gets to something like, "Dear AUNT LORETTA, Thank you so much for the awesome PANTS! How did you now I wanted that for Christmas? I love the way the PANTS looks on my LEGS! All my friends will be so jealous that I have my very own PANTS." I think I was laughing over this for a good three hours after I read it. There's something particularly charming about Kinney's illustration/cartoons too. The lines are incredibly clean and precise, even as they are showing some pretty raucous stuff. Kinney's grasp on visual gags is without comparison. At one point Greg happens to mention that if you "mess up in front of Dad" (i.e. kick over your little brother's toys maliciously) he'll throw whatever he has in his hands at you. We then see two shots of Greg misbehaving. The first is labeled, "GOOD TIME TO SCREW UP:" and shows him kicking over some blocks while his dad is holding the newspaper. The second reads, "BAD TIME TO SCREW UP:" and shows him doing it while his dad is cementing together a brick wall. Comedy gold, people! The comics are drawn over lined paper, making the whole enterprise really feel as if you're poring through someone else's journal. And for all that, the writing's not too shabby. When Greg talks about week-ends he says, "The only reason I get out of bed at all on weekends is because eventually, I can't stand the taste of my own breath anymore." Been there. Tasted that. Kinney's able to point out all kinds of funny school details we adults may have forgotten, but that kids will recognize instantly. For example, why should you tell kids that "It's great to be you," when a lot of people really should think about changing themselves? We see two bullies shoving some poor kid down at this point yelling, "It's great to be me!," you you have to concede the point. I mean, Kinney remembers what it was like to roll a really big snowball and then see that you were ripping up the grass on your lawn in the process. No one remembers that! Characters are also lovingly delineated, not only in words, but in their little comic illustrations. Take as your example the character of Greg's fellow student and neighbor Fregley. Fregley is weird. So how would you, as the writer/cartoonist, convey this? You might want to have him say things like, "Wanna see my secret freckle?". You might draw him with a mouth wider than his head. You might have him stabbing kites in his front yard, shirtless. For a start, anyway. Every character in this book feels real. Even Greg's annoying, practically mute, little brother. And so much more. Such as the name of Greg's older brother's band. Loaded Diaper, only it's spelled "Loded Diper" with an umlaut over the "o". Greg suspects his brother thinks that it really is spelled that way. And there are the small failures and triumphs of your average pre-adolescent. No one in their right mind would ever want to return to the days of Middle School, but if Jeff Kinney keeps churning out books like this one, I'll follow him there any day of the week. This title has already been getting some pretty choice reviews here and there. Can I make a nomination for funniest children's book of 2007? Consider it a necessary purchase.


Hilarious Even for Adults

by Noah D. Karchmer from Maryland on 2007-12-08
I learned of this book in my University of Maryland alumni magazine and I'm very glad I did. The author, Jeff Kinney, wrote a popular comic strip called "Igdoof" in the early 90's for the Maryland student newspaper, the Diamondback. His comic alone made me look forward to each new issue of the paper and I continued to seek it out even after I graduated to read Kinney's comic. From what I understand, he fought to get the strip syndicated after he graduated, but it never happened- presumably because his somewhat simplistic and crude artistic style is nothing like what you see in the daily comics sections. I had often wondered what became of Kinney, whose considerable talent should not be going to waste, so I was happy to pick this book up once I discovered it. The book, likely written for kids at or above a fifth or sixth grade reading level, was better reading for a 37 year old than I could have possibly imagined. Kinney picks up right where he left off with the Igdoof strip with the very same humor and art that made me enjoy it so much. The book was laugh-out-loud funny throughout and I would recommend it to not only kids, but anyone who can appreciate humor books. I wish Jeff all the success in the world and look forward to reading more of his works-- he has really found his calling.


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23 Responses to How do you deal with others disciplining your children?

  1. H-E-L-L NO! You mother was out of line. No one should be diciplining your child but you.

  2. I believe that ABSOLUTELY no one has the right to discipline my children but me, especially physically.

    Your mom was out of line, I agree.

    However, if you are not going to discipline your child, someone has got to.

  3. I would be livid if anyone including their father slapped them across the face. My parents and in laws can verbally correct my kids and that is it. My husband and I are the only ones who can use physical punishment and we do not. And if I felt they were being to mean verbally, I would in a heart beat say something.
    How ever I have made it very clear to my kids they do not back talk their grandparents or tell them no that they are also their boss. It is a fine line, and she crossed it, but your daughter needs to be told to listen to her grandma as well.

  4. If their kids are super bad – they shouldn’t be discipling anyone elses kid.
    But – if my kids are bad – call them out!
    IT TAKES A VILLAGE TO RAISE A CHILD!

    But I agree that NO ONE should be slapping a kid across the face. Not even me…on the hand or **** yes…

  5. Uh, I would take offense to someone hitting my child. I would take offense to someone correcting my child in my presence. When I’m not around, I expect other adults to correct him, but not to hit him.

  6. It is your daughter, not your mom’s. I would have been mad to. but you as a mother need to tell her yourself to stop or you will get a time out, or a spanking, or however you do it, cause I have your same situation only 9 years later, and she still thinks she can do whatever she wants, and her medical condition my daughter has ( kidney infections), had surgery when she was 2 years old, don’t get very often but will fake one just to get out of school, or to get her way.

  7. No you did not overreact. You were there and you should have been the one disciplining your daughter. I would say that it’s ok for a grandparent to discipline if they are babysitting but slapping her in the face was out of line. Actually that is not discipline that is abuse especially at that age. You should have taken your daughter to the restroom or outside and talked to her and if she needed a swat it should have been on the bottom NOT across the face.

  8. man boobs says:

    Your mom was Waaaaaay out of line for hitting a 2 year old across the face. She needs to get herself under control. You were there, it was your job to discipline your little girl. You need to tell your mother to let you be the mother, and she needs to be just grandmother. I had to tell my mother this.
    I don’t believe in slapping a child in the face anyways. A slap on the bottom with your hand….ok, but not anywhere else, and definitely not by anyone but the parents.

  9. No, you’re right. I belive in disipline and I do smack my children, but I would never smack them accross the face and never in anger, they are warned first and if they carry on/ignore me then I smack them but only if they are doing something they know is wrong, otherwise I explain to them what they are doing is wrong and why . I would never expect another person to smack my child, reprimanding them if they were doing something very wrong I would accept.

  10. You are right to be upset about this. Your mother should not be slapping anyone in the face, let alone a 2 year old.

  11. I have no problem with my mother-in-law or my mother disciplining my daughter. As long as they do it right. And your mother shouldn’t have slapped your daughter, plain and simple. I would have flew off the handle as well. For me if she would have taken her to the ladies room, and ******* her on the bottom, and you were fine with her doing that, then there is nothing wrong with that. It’s your decision whether or not someone else is allowed to discipline your child. I don’t believe you were wrong in any way. You are her mother you have a right to be overprotective if you feel need be, and in this situation, I believe you did what you felt best. YOU ARE NOT A BAD MOTHER for protecting your child when things get out of hand.

  12. Hell yea she’s out of line. No way should anyone be slapping a 2yr old across the face be it your mother or not. I would have grabbed her and walked out of the restaurant. I don’t care for anyone trying to discipline my kids if not for me or my husband. You need to have a serious talk with your mother about that incident. Let her know how you feel.
    Good luck on that talk.

  13. Of course bc it is our kids we dont feel comfortable letting anyone discipline them but US! Terrible two’s everyone says that it is the roughest time ..but in my opinion your mom could have handled the situation a little better…a slap in the face at two years old isnt something i would do. As you said it wasn’t the place or time. I dont think it was wrong of you to flip out on her. That is something i would do. I know she’s your mother but YOU are the parent!

  14. I don’t think that you are wrong on this issue. My daughter is an only child and I have been told some of the same things you are talking about. I believe in punishing her when she needs it, but to slap a child across the face NO WAY!!! If that had been me it would have taken every ounce of will power not to slap the grandmother across the face.

    I would have to say that you need to sit your mom down and try to talk like adults about the situation and if that doesn’t do any good then tell her that she can’t see the child except when you are with her. That will make her realize what you are talking about.

    Good luck to you.

  15. You are NOT being overprotective!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1i would break my mothers arm if she slapped my 2 year old across the face? this is completely unacceptable, and i wouldn;t be leaving my two year old in her care if she has the odasity to do that right in front of you?????????????/you are right there is a time and a place, but hitting across the face is completely unacceptable, it is one thing to pick her up and go to the bathroom and try and settle her down, or even a little ***** on the bum, but by no means would anyone be hitting my 2 year old across the face, The two year old will NEVER understand why she got hit across the face, and at that age, you need to do alot different than that. You need to NOT LISTEN TO ANYONE ELSE!!!!! THIS IS YOUR CHILD, NOT YOUR MOTHERS, TELL HER YOU NEED HER SUPPORT AND OF COURSE IF YOUR DAUGHTER IS IN HER HOME, THEN DISAPLINE ACCORDINGL;Y BUT I WOULD NEVER LEAVE MY CHILD ALONE WITH THAT WOMAN AGAIN? WHAT DOES SHE DO WHEN YOU AREN;T THERE? I WOULD **** TO THINK, IF THAT IS WHAT SHE DOES IN FRONT OF YOU, YOU ARE NOT A BAD MOTHER, AND I WOULDN;T SUBJECT YOUR DAUGHTER TO THAT WOMAN EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!! YOU NEED TO LAY DOWN BOUNDRIES WITH YOUR MOTHER, AND TELL HER THAT UNDER NO CERTAIN CICUMSTANCES IS SHE TO PUT HER HANDS ON YOUR DAUGHTER AGAIN, AS SHE WILL NEVER SEE HER AGAIN IF SHE DOES, AS IF THIS IS WHAT SHE DOES CAUSE YOUR DAUGHTER MISBEHAVES IN PUBLIC, WHAT DOES SHE DO IN PRIVATE, I WOULD **** TO THINK, AND DON;T LEAVE HER WITH THAT WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I WOULD HAVE ATTACKED MY MOTHER HAD SHE HIT MY LITTLE BABY ACROSS THE FACE!!!!!! YOU ARE RIGHT STICK WITH IT NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS
    BABY

  16. chest fat says:

    No your completely right~
    Slapping is not disciplining!
    That’s outrageous, and completely un-called for!
    I understand your frustration she was way out of line, your not wrong or over protective.

    I don’t like anyone to discipline my child but myself or her father, I trust my parents to put her in time out if she’s not behaving but I would be absolutely livid if I witnessed my mother slapping her across the face!

  17. If it was my parents or my wife’s, I would be ok with them disciplining my boys.

    HOWEVER. I don’t feel that a slap across the face is discipline.

    But if you don’t want people to discipline your child, perhaps you should do it yourself.

  18. Only you and her her father should have the right to physically discipline your child..

    However, as a grandparent, and someone who has to be seen in public with you, she has a right to verbally discipline her, The problem here , lies in the fact that SHE shouldn’t have HAD to discipline her. YOU should have done it yourself. There IS a time and place to correct bad behavior. That time is WHEN the behavior is occurring , and the place is anywhere she is acting out. You admit yourself she is spoiled…what affect do you think this is having on her? Life will not always give her whatever she wants. She WILL have to follow rules once she is in school, and Will have to obey laws as an adult. By allowing her to run wild at this age, you are setting yourself up for disaster as a teenager. Most of a person’s personality is developed by the age of 5. If you don’t discipline her now, you never will be able to.

  19. I don’t believe in slapping a child across the face, but why weren’t you controlling your child instead of waiting on your mother to do it for you?

  20. NOOOOOO you are NOT wrong! NO ONE SHOULD EVER discipline your child physically except you and the babies father and b. you were RIGHT there and if you felt she needed discipline it is for YOU to do, not anyone else…..

  21. She was way out of line. My parents and in laws are only allowed to correct them verbally. Nobody and I mean nobody has my permission to hit my kids. Only I do when absolutely necessary and not accross the face.

  22. No I get mad if someone els even yells at my my child even my mother. She was way out of line. But then again I’m a protective mother.

  23. ultimately you are her mom. of course you mom was out of line for smacking her face.
    a few years ago my sisters daughter was misbehaving at my moms house my gramma was there. my mom told her to go to the corner. my gramma told her not to and then told my mom that she being the great grandmother has ultimate authority and then overruled my mom. my sister did the same thing you did and repectully tore my gramma a new one.
    moral of the story is this you are the mom. you and dad make the rules and gramma does not have the authority or sienority to trump you as mom. her job is to spoil your daughter and let her get away with murder not ever to strike her across the face. to ***** or not to ***** is the decision that you and dad make gramma has not authority to make it for you. if your mom doesn’t like it then tell her to that her actions will determine wether she gets to see her granddaughter more often or less often.